This is one of those posts that I wish I’d read somewhere else before I wrote it. Because really, before I started networking for my business I was a nervous wreck about it. Nevermind that as far back as high school, when I had to walk up to random students for a quote for the school yearbook, I was forced to push my shyness aside for the sake of writing. Nevermind that I continued doing so in college and then when I started writing for magazines.
When I shifted to copywriting, though, I realized I needed to learn to make better connections with business owners and people that needed my services. And sitting at my computer, hiding behind a screen wasn’t going to cut it.
After a lot of whining that I’m a writer! I’m much more put together on the page than I am in person! I realized I had an advantage. As writers, we have several tools that, if redirected, can make us great networkers:
1. We know how to build intrigue: That first line we write is the best shot we’ve got at capturing an audience. It doesn’t tell the whole story (why would anyone keep reading after that?) but it grabs a reader, hinting at what’s to come. The same is true for approaching someone while networking. When you craft your elevator pitch and introduction, focus on making it interesting. No need to blurt out everything you do as soon as you meet someone; just be interesting enough that they’ll want to learn more about you.
2. We know how to ask questions: My background is in journalism, and when I first started out, I was always surprised by how much people are willing to tell you about themselves. Everyone has a story, and everyone wants their story to be heard. As a writer, you get an ear for which questions to ask, so use this as you talk to the other networkers. Most people won’t want to talk with you if it’s a one-sided conversation, if you’re just trying to sell your services. Ask them questions and not only will they stick around, you’ll learn more about them and about how, specifically, you could help them. You’ll also connect on a more personal level rather than a business level, upping your chance that they’ll remember you after the event is over.
3. We know there’s always more than meets the eye: This kind of ties in with number two, but I think one of the reasons it’s easy to be intimidated by networking is that the room might be full of VP’s, EIC’s, CEOs…acronym after acronym. But beneath all those titles are just people. They have hobbies, families, favorite bands, and if you dig deep enough you’ll find some common ground, even if you’re in a completely different industry. Once you start looking at networking as a chance to meet new people, not business contacts, it all comes naturally, and it’s much more enjoyable for everyone.
4. We know how to get to the point: You know how when you finally sit down to write, you might only use a fraction of the research that you gathered? You focus in on the point of the story or copy and communicate it to readers. So let’s say you meet an editor from an agriculture magazine at a networking event, and you’ve written mostly for general interest pubs but in college you were a double major in Environmental Engineering and Communications. What are you going to focus in on when you tell that editor about yourself? Maybe not the piece you wrote for Glamour. Focus on how you can help others (instead of the other way around), and let them know in a clear and concise manner.
How about you? Have you found that your work skills help you in a network setting?